It's The Most Wonderful Time of the Year... Wedding Season is Here!

“When things are so rough in the world, the intimacy [of a wedding] and this simple belief in building a tiny little nucleus with someone else.… That’s beautiful. It’s what I count on. We’re living through a crazy moment, so let’s just go back to the things that feel real, to people professing love to one another.” -Susan Winget, Marshmallow cofounder. 💖

Ahh, wedding season! Dare I say, my absolute favorite time of the year! 😍 I envision it as the one day in your life that you expect to go smoothly, but then life happens... I'm sure the pandemic has affected many of us with plans to get hitched this past year. Some had to postpone their big day, cancel it altogether or instead, downsize their guest list significantly and have a more intimate yet equally as beautiful, micro-wedding. I swear the concept of having an elopement sounds more and more appealing each day... Whatever you choose, there's still an element of stress regarding how to create your "ideal day." The one day that you'll remember for the rest of your life. Thankfully, it's nice to have the option of having a photographer and/or videographer present, if that's the route you and your partner decide on. It's a great way to make the most out of the experience, in which not only will you have photos and keepsakes for life, but that person could also serve as your witness. Win-win! 🙌🏽

Speaking of elopements... How do y'all feel about that idea? 👀 There's something so intriguing about eloping because to me, it's literally doing away with the opinions and social concepts of others and making the day strictly about the two of you and your love. I always joke around with my mom and ask how would she feel if I decided to elope? She would respond with: "That's okay as long as I can be a witness." Haha! 🤣

I think the only things stopping me from the idea of an elopement is the fact that one: some say you can always have a small or big celebration with your loved ones later on, but my thing is, I would prefer to do it all ONCE! The way my social battery is set up, I cannot be having two or three events at a time. And second, I struggle with the thought of not having my loved ones present. Lord knows that I don't want the entire motley crew there, but just the nearest and dearest to share that joyous moment with us. Then again, even if I don't decide to elope, I keep telling my mom that this is the perfect time to have an intimate wedding because hello, we're still in a pandemonium! Nobody has the right to get offended if they're not invited. I don't take those types of things personally anyway, so DO YOU BOO BOO! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Anywho, we shall see how my love life turns out with all its plot twists and turns... Which reminds me that I need to get on with my "tell-all" novel already! The tea is scorching... Haha! 🍵

And with all that being said... Here are a few of my favorite bridal gowns, engagement rings that are a lovely and cost efficient alternative to diamonds, as well as, some of the biggest wedding trends to look out for in 2021. 

Also, feel free to leave a comment and let me know what wedding trends you’re interested in below! 

Enjoy!

With Love,

Sharon R. 💖

Am I dreaming? How is it still January...?!

I don't think that I've ever realized how slow January seems to go by... But, the fact that we're getting closer to my birthday month does perk me up a bit.

Well, I went to two interviews last Thursday. They went well and everyone seemed kind and accommodating. I'm most likely leaning towards one over the other and it does help that they seem more inclined to cater to my schedule. It's not easy job-hunting in this day and age... There are days when I sit or lay back and contemplate, "What are you doing with your life?" I sometimes can't help, but wonder if I'm missing out on my true purpose in life.

I'm in no way putting my talents on a pedestal, but you would think with my abilities most would probably want to fight for their dream(s). Yes, I've been blessed with the talent of singing but I never saw it as anything to showcase. I'm a romantic, so of course I'm the type to gravitate towards songs that speak to my melancholy heart. I think the only times I truly begin considering exploring the path of music, is when people hear me for the first time (or more than once, apparently I have fans...) and they encourage me to continue. It's fascinating to me because while growing up, art was my passion. I used to think that I was going to become an artist, but then once I discovered my adoration for fashion, that's when the prospect of fashion design came into the picture. Also, with my admiration for cosmetics and makeup application, people have even encouraged me to start-up a YouTube channel or even offer to do makeup for special occasions for some extra money. 🤔🤔

I guess there are so many things that I would like to pursue, so I find myself pushing myself to only go after one and perhaps that's not fair to myself. Maybe I owe it to myself to sit down, grab the nearest and dearest that are willing to hear me out and might even be able to help a girl out (ya gotta support one another), and GET TO WORK!

• Start sketching or coloring/painting again. 🖌🎨
• Practice sewing again. 💆🏻‍♀️
• Start singing MORE! 🎤
• Perhaps write a song.💬🎶
• Record in a studio. 😩🎧🎼
• Perhaps perform (on my terms.) 🎭🙌🏼
• Let loose and dance again! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

What do you aspire to accomplish or try this year? Feel free to let me know in the comment box below.

With Love,
Sharon 💕