Remember Me This Way

Hey everyone!

I hope you're all safe and staying in as much as possible. I just wanted to express the heaviness in my heart from the loss of a sweet and dear childhood friend of mine, earlier this morning. He passed away due to complications from the virus, as well as, other serious health issues. I cannot imagine the immense panic, worry and pain of losing a child, parent or other family member. And you can never expect that the last conversation with that person would be the very last... My heart truly goes out to his parents during this extremely difficult time. 😔

He always dreamed of true love and growing old with someone... It truly breaks my heart that he will never get to experience that in this lifetime. He was always so self-aware, willing to learn and understand all of the complexities of life and had such a big heart. That guy knew how to write... I would find myself sometimes, having to take my time and respond in sections due to the extensive content (they were like essays, guys!) But, I loved how he would always remind me to take as much time as I needed to respond and even if I didn't get to, he was grateful to have some sort of outlet to vent anything weighing on his heart. I'm really going to miss his child-like innocence, his patience, for always wanting the best for me and those he cared for.

My girls and I were reminding one another that from now on, once someone comes to mind, reach out! Life is way too short! We need each other more than ever, so please if you can find some time during your day to contact someone, please do! Whether it's a text, call, email, or an old-fashioned letter by mail, do it! You never know how much that ONE kind gesture can encourage someone on this journey. Be more loving. Be more kind. Be more patient and embrace your present. 💕

I'm quite emotional today and had a good cry in the shower, but I know that I'll get through this and that I can hold onto the goodness in this life. I cherish people like him in life and I hope he knew how loved he was. We need more gentle souls in this world. I love you, Kris! Rest well, my friend. 💔

With Love,
Sharon 💙


P.S. this song immediately came to mind today, so feel free to give it a listen when you can. I started singing it to myself and couldn't help, but break down into tears. My heart truly aches today, but I trust that one day I will see him on that great morning. 🙏🏼

RIP Kris 🌻

Remember Me This Way - Jordan Hill (Casper 1995)

Pending Birthday...

So, it's officially Pisces Season... WOOT WOOT! 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻  Besides, budgeting and planning ahead, I've been deliberating on what to wear for my upcoming birthday weekend... 🤔 I'll be away with friends to attend a young adult seminar in Leominster, MA. We had a wonderful experience last year, so we knew that we had to go again and have it booked by December 2017. It's crazy how fast time has gone AND the fact that it happens to fall on my birthday, Feb 23rd. 💖

Of course, this whole bipolar NY and New England weather makes it a bit unnerving so you're not sure whether to pack snow boots or sneakers/TOMS?! I think to make our lives a bit easier, it helps to have the basics for quick layering and still be comfortable yet chic. They can be the following: a neutral sweater, a striped tee, black denim or blue jeans, neutral accessories and coat. Plus, the great thing about most of these outfit ideas is that they can already be in our closets. It's all about how you style it to fit your personality and level of comfort. (Oh and if you by any chance have a faux fur coat hangin' around somewhere, by all means, ROCK IT!)

Happy shopping and wishing you all a fabulous week, I mean it's bound to be since it IS my birthday week! YAYYYY! 👸🏻 

With Love,
Sharon ☕️

Casual Outfit Inspo 1

Casual Outfit Inspo 2

Casual Outfit Inspo 3

And in case you want to dress up the look, you can choose to swap out the pants for a sweater dress, add a pair of classic pumps, thigh-high boots or opt for an all-black/neutral ensemble...

Dressy Outfit Inspo 1

Dressy Outfit Inspo 2

Dressy Outfit Inspo 3

All-Black Outfit Inspo

February Anticipations

It's the day before Valentine's Day and I can already imagine the pending thoughts, anxieties, plans and emotions that most people may be feeling during this time... 😟😊😍😘

One thing that I appreciate about my current season is that I find myself less bitter and more grateful for everything. There's little to no pressure on "what to expect next", but rather more of embracing each day for what it is and every person that's walked in or out of my life. It may sound a bit cliche, but one of the most important commitments in life is to loving yourself. Yes, I've planned my future wedding down to the guest list and favors (I promise that I'm not neurotic, I just adore details and the concept of wedding planning,) BUT the older that I get the more I've realized that if I don't learn to be thankful or content with my present life, a wedding ain't gonna make much of a difference. 😌

Daily reminders:

• a delay can be a blessing in disguise
• it's never too late to start over 
• don't allow anything or anyone to consume your life, it should compliment it
• accept your past, embrace your emotions, but don't allow it to pollute your present or dictate your future
• be thankful that you're no longer the same person you were a year ago
• surround yourself with positive energy and people who support you during your rainy days and not just on your sunny ones 
• protect your space and those that you allow within it
• and be sure to take care of yourself, as well as, those around you 🙌🏼

Oh and has anyone else tried any of the latest Valentine's Day donuts from Dunkin Donuts? Aren't they the cutest? I also received my Lilly Lashes in the mail today and look forward to rockin' them for my birthday next Friday (or that weekend.) I'll include photos and links below. 😏

May you all have a fabulous Valentine's day whether you choose to: go out with friends, significant other or enjoy staying-in solo. 💘


With lots and lots of love,
Sharon 🍩

DUNKIN DONUTS

• 1 Medium Mocha Iced Latte w/ Extra Whip Cream
• 1 Lovestruck donut (pink frosting)
• 1 Brownie Batter Crumble donut (heart-shaped chocolate)

Lilly Lashes - Ghalichi GLAM

• 1 Limited Edition - Inspired by "Miami" Premium Synthetic Lashes - Lilly Lashes Premium Lashes | Miami

• 1 Clear Brush-On Lash Adhesive - Lilly Lashes | Lash Adhesive